You must control because you don't want rejection.

There are many single one of those whom think we need take care our stuff: such as money, girlfriend, house, family, children, someone else's expectations, etc.

We don't want people think we are "disable" to function well in what they expect us, or under what high standard that we deserve their love and money.

More money is good but rejection comes after it goes down. I am sure no body expect the real tight guy whom takes all the other's cash flow to them, to charge them, and without giving them back or charge them less later.

Such as you sell those in a reasonable price, they can eat, spend, rent, save and not just depend on you. They work for you but not a slavery for you, they've just signed up the contract for it.

People feel rejected because they do what the others are doing, don't do what they think it's not right. But sometimes, the meaning of "not right" is totally wrong and not ethical.

If the true love is based on God's love and do not expect you to perform well, people will think you must be an idiot to take this post. I am sure they will have this kind of strong mind-set but they do not want to believe there is a free lunch from God. God does not say we need not to work or work harder, the only thing is to trust him all the way through and trust harder, do more, and live better.

He owns everything and no one wants to know, even the stock market.